The Couples Mentoring Program (CMP) is a unique new program, developed by Dr. Dennis J. Woods,
President and CEO of Couples Mentoring Youth and Family Services,
LLC. In this effective approach to mentoring, married couples are utilized to provide this dynamic service. After years of being a Pediatric Mental Health Specialist and a Mentoring Consultant, Dr. Woods discovered that there was a greater benefit to his clients when his spouse accompanied him on mentoring sessions.
The results were remarkable. Our clients responded better to the guidance, interaction, and perspective of both husband and wife working together as a team.
The payoff was a win-win situation where the client, the couple and the agency all benefited from this innovative new approach to mentoring.
Statistics indicate that children do far better, behaviorally, scholastically, and go on to achieve greater levels of success when raised in a nurturing environment where both mother and father provide the care they need.
However, children that are in foster care typically, do not have both mother and father role models in the home.
While, at the same time, there are married couples who don’t have children
that would love to have a positive impact on a child’s life.
The Couples Mentoring program unites both worlds to bring about a therapeutic dynamic that can not be equaled by traditional mentoring programs.
Services
Mentoring
Tutoring Counseling
COUPLES MENTORING IS SUPERIOR TO TRADITIONAL MENTORING PROGRAMS
Provides a greater sensitivity to the client’s issues and needs
Helps reinforce the concept of family
Provides a better model for socialization
Provides a richer environment for interaction and role modeling
Provides a greater level of supervision
Husband and wife team provides better security therefore promoting greater self-esteem
Not gender restricted. One couple can service both male and female clients
Provides two mentors per client
Excellent for sibling groups
Mentoring sessions provide needed respite for the guardian
Benefits of Couples Mentoring
Just as a children naturally benefit from observing and learning from their mother and father, so do clients benefit from a mentoring couple. Therefore, the benefits of couples mentoring as opposed to traditional mentoring are numerous. Couples Mentoring provides a greater sensitivity to the clients issues and needs. The maternal instincts of a mother and the strength and security of a protective father, supplies the emotional and psychological balance that foster children often miss in their daily experience. The perspectives of the male and female, both collectively and individually, gives a much wider range of insight, interaction, while helping to improve the clients socialization skills and behavior by observing the husband and wife role models. Additionally, Couples Mentoring provides a greater level of supervision, and promotes higher self esteem because clients feel better about themselves in a stable environment. Couples Mentoring is also excellent for sibling groups and is not gender restricted because one couple can service male or female clients.
Profile
for Couples Mentoring Clients
Candidateswho best fit the couples mentoring profile are children between the
ages of 5-12 years of age, and (1)who
have been emotionally or physically abused, wheretrust, and the need to feel secure are best addressed by a male and
female role model.(2)
Children who would have difficulty, trusting any adult in a one-on-one
situation because of past abuse issues fairs better with a couple.(3) Children that are hyperactive and require more supervision
because of poor judgment and impulsivity. (4) Children that have suffered
neglect and require additional attention are better served by a mentoring
couple. (5) Children whose parents are incarcerated and children whose
parents have lost custody and have limited or no contact with maternal
parents.(6) Sibling groups
where separation from one another could be counter productive therefore,
simultaneous mentoring sessions are best.
Traditional Mentoring Program
Traditional Mentoring Program (TMP) is best suited for those clients who
are between the ages of 13 and 21, that require one-on-one adult guidance and companionship to be along side the client, and to help steer the client away from trouble.
Due to a variety of factors, foster parents may have limited resources and time to engage clients in extra social or recreational activities. In these cases, the limited outlets for social and recreational engagement, can place clients in a greater likelihood of involvement in at-risk
and delinquent behaviors. These undesirable circumstances places the client in greater danger of delinquency and eventual placement disruption. In situations like these, a one-on-one mentor is best, to encourage, guide and empower the client to make appropriate choices and decisions through effective therapeutic
role modeling.
Tutoring Services
Will focus on improving client’s
classroom performance and grades through after school educational
interventions, designed to improve skills, increase interest in school
work, completion of home work and strengthening areas of academic
deficiency.In conjunction
with input from teachers, the parents, and assessments, individualized
educational plans will be implemented with the goal of raising client’s
level of academic functioning by improving test scores and letter grade
status.
Counseling
Services
The
In-home *Counseling Program is designed to help prevent placement
disruption from occurring and promote placement stabilization through
in-home counseling sessions.The
purpose of the sessions would be to address behavioral, psychosocial, and
emotional issues, of either client or family system, by setting obtainable
treatment goals and objectives.Unless
otherwise stipulated, counseling sessions will occur once a week for 3 to
12 months.All therapists will possess Masters Degrees in Human
Services, Counseling, Psychology, Social Work, etc.Clinical supervision will be provided byLicensed Clinical Psychologists or LCSW's.
*Counseling
services are currently available in Illinois and Indiana only.
Program Scope
The CMP and TMP are designed to meet the specific behavioral, social, recreational,
needs of each of our clients. Each client receives a comprehensive individualized Treatment and Interventions Plan, based on the particular needs
of the client. The treatment interventions plan will be comprehensive in that it will include
input from parents, teachers, social workers, and clinical professionals, who have direct involvement with the client.
Goals and objectives will be established so that the mentoring activities will coincide with treatment plan outcomes.
Additionally, progress notes and 90 day progress reviews will also be a part of the service.